Me time and errr...Aryan

So he is away for more than 3 weeks now. Ya ampun aku rasa tulang belakang dah bengkok, energy is completely drained. Yang tinggal hanyalah sisa kekuatan. Seriously i keep wondering how the mothers out there yang anak sampai 5-6 orang get to manage their time and energy, dgn officework, dgn kerja kerja drop and fetch anak anak, house chores and the never ending karenah anak anak. Salute haku.

Disebabkan my mom and parents in law came over to visit us last weekend ( think its more nak pastikan cucu cucu mereka terjaga di tangan mommy nya yg dh meroyan ni).. I decided to leave the kids and had my 'me' time. Mind you yang Aryan mmg taknak tinggal dgn bibik. So i was hermm mesti budak ni nak tinggal dgn Onni, nenek dan atuknya. On saturday morning tu dah rasuah Aryan, kata please tinggal kejap dgn atok semua and he was like ok-mommy-im-fine-silalah pergi.

YES!

And there you go. At about 1030am I was ready with the car key nak kelur as my appointment at the spa was at 11am. And si anak bujang yang nampak mommy dia dah bawak handbag trus bergegas gi pakai kasut. Oh my tadi kata ok je nak tinggal dgn Onni. I tried to pujuk him, bribe him with Kidz Paradise (again) but semua nan ado hasil. Kalau dia dah loktang mengamuk depan rumah lagi takde hasil langsung nak pegi Spa kan so I decided to bring him long. Yes read me right; bawak anak bujang umir 3.5 years old pegi Spa.Me time lah sgt. Grrr.

Sampai Spa suruh Aryan main ipad senyap senyap. What else could I do to make him behave and tak buat onar di situ. Nasib baik aku dah kenal and biasa dgn pekerja Spa situ, just takut org laun yg akan terganggu. Orang dtg Spa nak relax their mind but terpakda dengar celoteh kepochi Aryan kan. Mau aku tak risau.

The first half an hour was ok.. But after that Aryan dah bosan and he started buat rondaan kawasan. Aku tak senang baring time buat hot stone and massage itu. And the ultimate scene was Aryan naik skali atas katil baring sebab nak minum susu! I told him to minum susu in the car later, but dia pandai korek handbag cari susu and mintak tolong pekerja tu angkat dia naik katil! Adoila anak. I never imagine akan pernah pegi Spa, massage and ada anak kat atas katil bersama. Kau mampoo? Agagaga.

That was the first time and last aku bawak Aryan ke Spa I swear. Walaupun mcm cool je bawak anak bujang as bodyguard, but definitely not to the Spa la weh. I'll make sure next month nye Spa is my me time takde anak dalam cerita. Tapi tu lah kan, hati ibu..tak sampai hati tengok anak menangis sebab kita tinggalkan dia. How am i going to leave bebudak ni nanti for our 4th honeymoon soon? I do not have the answer.

Please encik hubby, come back home quick. Isterimu ini dah pancit nguruskan rumahtangga seorang diri.